I remember having a few conversations with some of my girlfriends at our favorite coffee shop in town about the subject of sex a few years ago. My friends and I were practically the girls from "Sex and the City"!
One of my friends mentioned to me that she loved it when her boyfriend carried her body and kisses and caressed her skin lightly, as if her temple would burst with any hard impact she would receive. I replied that I liked to pull my hair out and spank my ass.
Is the feeling mutual?
I think all of us ladies like to try different parts of sex. There are times when I would enjoy a night of passion where a man's body and mine are so close to mine that we couldn't stop kissing for the duration of the session. However, there are times when I want nothing more than a man to push me onto the bed, rip off my panties, and pull me hard while his hands hold my wrists down.
There are theories floating around the internet that might explain why women sometimes have a carnal urge to be ravaged hard. Some people think it's because of the "Fifty Shades of Grey" phenomenon, while others think it's because of the modern feminist movement we're experiencing right now.
I think rough sex is something we've always wanted to do. I don't think there was a moment in the woman's brain when she suddenly said to herself:
"Enough romance. I just want to shoot.
We've always wanted rough sex; we just needed the right type and atmosphere to help bring that animal out of us. When people think that some women like to be choked and beaten, they think that something may have happened to them in their past lives or that they are damaged. This is not the case!
One thing I have to say is that just because a girl likes to be played rough in the bedroom doesn't mean she likes to be the bottom in everyday life. In psychology, women who enjoy rough sex are believed to alleviate any type of stress or anxiety they have in their lives. If you were raised to believe that sex is dirty and should only be done for reproduction rather than recreation, you would have a lot of tension built up inside you. Either go hard or go home!
I remember having my first sexual experience with my first boyfriend and it felt really good when all he wanted to do was pin me against the wall. I liked. A lot. After that session, I just couldn't easily settle for soft, sensual intercourse. It's like coffee; once you go black, you never go back!
What I also find interesting is that you can have rough sex with a person you would least expect to like it. I met a guy who is a real sweetheart. He told me lots of jokes, held my hand and kissed me softly when I went out in public.
However, once we got back to my place one evening, I knew there was a very tough side to him, but he was a little afraid to show it. I decided to take him back to my room where I started kissing him hard as I wrapped my arms around him tightly. It finally dawned on him that I really like being fucked hard, so he jerked my ass, slid his throbbing cock inside me, and made my bed shake for 2 hours straight.
No kidding, my bed ended up on one side of the room after being placed on the other side before the session started! oh man After the first 2 weeks, there was no place in my apartment where we didn't have sex. I climaxed in the bathroom, living room, kitchen, on the kitchen table, on the balcony...yes, on the balcony.
Besides, there was no room for softness whenever we met. Well, there were a few moments where I wrapped my legs around his waist and let him slide his shaft in and out of me, but most of the time, I often wondered,
"How come I haven't come out bruised yet?"
After my first sex session with him, I kept saying the word "Wow!" when he wasn't looking at me; it was so good!
The answer to the question
As mentioned earlier, many people believe that the rise of modern feminism has made women want harder sex in their lives. However, if you ask me how I feel about the notion, I believe that gender or social politics should not interfere with our preferences regarding sex.
Everyone likes different types of sex and fuck, as I mentioned earlier, so it's not fair to give the idea that our sex culture changes with each passing generation. Sex is not a fashion trend that changes every season; once we like a certain style, we stick with it. So if you ask the question:
"Why do girls like rough sex?"
I don't know, man. Maybe girls love rough sex because it makes them cum!
