I love my wife, I still go to escorts. This may sound like a great thing to say to people who are not in the escort industry, but to the rest of us, it makes sense.
There are different reasons for each of us, but for me it is because my wife will not have anal sex. To be fair, she knows about my other life and doesn't mind, because she accepts and means I don't complain about her for that.
To be fair, her refusal to even think about anal sex is a common thing, and even common misconceptions about the subject.
I would say that there are three points you need to cross to actually get anal sex. These three myths are what you need
We cannot guarantee that the woman in your life will do anal after hearing the truth, but it will definitely give you more chances!
1. Anal sex is painful
The myth is that because the anus does not self-lubricate, so it will hurt. Think it's smaller than your vagina and you have the perfect recipe for pain, don't you?
Yes, if you penetrate it directly, then it will not be too much fun, that's why the lubricant must be used first. Sprinkle the anus; don't use too much.
Once you have done this, start slowly. Then, with good communication, you can move on, always making sure that the woman is comfortable.
2. Good girls don't do anal
This may sound bad, but many women find that anal sex somehow makes them dirty. Maybe it's the normality of vaginal sex or the fact that the bottom is where the poo comes from, but there just seems to be a mental block for many.
Women will need a lot of encouragement that they are not some kind of trollop to engage in anal sex. That doesn't mean you have to pinch their heads; only if this comes up as a problem, they need someone to tell them it's more normal than they think.
3. Anal sex is harmful
Well, yes it can be. But to be fair, any sex you have can be harmful if done incorrectly, so you don't need to put anal in a special category.
If you use a lot of lubricant and remember to penetrate slowly, then the anus will return to where it was and there will be no permanent damage.
All the best
But, as I said earlier, if it is done wrong, then there will, of course, be problems. Remember to read the topic carefully before you begin.
We hope you found this useful. It's too late for me to keep up with my escorts in Bucharest.
If this information gives you the "negotiation discovery" you are looking for, we might be more than happy!
Good luck!
