Giving your partner a fantastic erotic massage can be a great way to show them how much you care and a relaxing way to make them warm and eager for an interesting night of fun.
If you have never had a soothing erotic massage or if you just want some tips to help you make it even better for your partner, read the guide below. It is full of the best erotic massage tips to put your partner's putty in your hands.
The best way to start an erotic massage is by relaxing your partner. You also want to make sure that their skin is soft and smooth to make their massage easier. You can do both in one, taking them to the shower or bath.
If you have a bath, make sure it is hot with bubbles to help them relax. For those with a shower, leave them with a body cleanser for them to work on those rough pieces of skin. Whatever you use to help them relax, make sure you have the perfect product to wash your body. Opt for something without a strong odor to make sure it's not overwhelming.
As they prepare, find some relaxing music to play in the background. You can create a playlist that you know lasts as long as you want to massage, whether it's fifteen minutes, half an hour or more. When you enter the room to enjoy the massage, you can simply press play and your relaxing timer has started.
Oils and lotions
As with body wash, the oil or lotion you choose should not smell too strong. If it has a strong smell and your partner does not enjoy the smell, it is very difficult for them to relax and enjoy it. Opt for a very faint scent and avoid things with a citrus, musk or floral scent to make sure it works best for your partner.
Oils can be great to use for both erotic and sensual massages. They help your hands slide effortlessly over their body without the need to put too much pressure. A little oil also goes a long way, so be careful when applying it to make sure there isn't too much.
Lotions are a great way to make sure your skin stays smooth and soft after a shower or bath. Lotions tend to have a more subtle scent than oils and may be cheaper to buy, but require more to cover your body properly. Try testing both products first to make sure they work the way you want them to.
What to do
With an erotic massage, the goal is to activate and sexually arouse them. After that, you can simply leave them wanting more or lighten them, but you want to start in the right way.
Light touching with your fingertips can activate them very quickly. They begin to anticipate when they will be touched with firmer touches and exactly what it will lead to.
Start right at your fingertips or feet and go to the center of their boy. Avoid genitals and other erogenous zones as much as you can. You want to tease them and make them desperate for you.
Pressure
Begin to slowly increase the pressure as you massage it, ranging from your fingertips, palm or heel to their skin. Feel for the areas of tension and work on them. However, be careful not to press too hard, as it can be painful. Make it clear that you should let us know if it becomes too painful so that you can change the pressure.
Final
When you want to end the erotic massage, you can simply stop and leave them wanting more or decide to let them go away with a smile on their face, leading them to orgasm.
As you have already teased them by working around the erotic areas of their body, you simply start working on them, either by stroking them lightly or by rubbing your hands up and down. The lotion, oil and lubricant can work brilliantly to help you remove them.
Make really slow movements and tease them until they beg you to let them finish. Then you can allow them to complete in any way they want.
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