SPANKING

SPANKING

 Spanking is a lot of fun when done correctly.  Whether you are the one who gives your partner good, or you are the one bent at the mercy of their hand, it is both pleasant and fun.

   If you are trying to fight for the first time, it can be a little intimidating.  You may have seen a lot of hardcore porn videos, but that won't help you figure out what to do.

  How hard do you hit?  Where should you hit?  Should you use toys?  Let's take a look at the files and the facts you don't have to beat.

  Set the rules

 The first thing you need to do is set the rules.  Sit down and talk to your partner about what you want.  Whether you want to hit them or you wouldn't like them to hit you any more, you should clarify this in the first few conversations together.

  If it's a fantasy, tell them about it in detail.  This will help them get into character and make the experience much more enjoyable for you.

  You also need to establish a safe word or a security system to keep everything fun for both of you.  Stopping things early is not a sign that you are weak.  If there is something, it shows that you know your limits and when you have to close things.

  One of the most popular ways to keep things safe is to use a safe word.  This word is usually something you wouldn't normally say in that situation (not "no", because that might be part of the fantasy).  People will also use colors such as red, amber and green to show their partner how they feel.  Red would be stopping, amber to use more caution and green for more intensity.  Choose any method that suits you best.

 Make your self at home

 One of the most forgotten parts of blows is position.  Many times you become so determined to set the rules, use the right equipment and have fun with it that you get to the act of beating and feel safe where to go.

  Above the knee tends to be the standard position of the shot.  It allows you to get a good angle for spanking, while adding fantasy.  However, it can be very uncomfortable for the person who is hit.

  You could start with the over-the-knee position to see how you both feel.  If it doesn't work for you, consider moving to bed.  The best part about spanking is that it can be done anywhere.

 In fact, you can tie your partner to bed if you want, or you can simply put him on his knees, waiting for him to administer his punishment.  You could even have them standing on the wall!

  Where to spank?

  In hardcore spanking videos, you might see them leaving big red marks or even drawing blood from their partner, but that's not what you want to do.  Not when you start!  Doing so is a sure way to make sure it never happens again.

 However, if you are gentle with your fist and still hit the wrong area, you can do some real damage.  You need to know where it is and it is not acceptable to touch it

  There are two ways to do this.  The first is talking to your partner.  You may know where you want to be hit, and your partner may.  They will be able to direct you to the perfect place on your body, which makes them feel fantastic when you give it a light blow.

  The second way is by using common sense.  The kidneys, joints and lower back are forbidden areas.  You can cause a lot of problems by hitting there.  Instead, go for the more fleshy areas of the body.  Places like thighs are ideal for this and tend to be where your partner finds it more enjoyable.

   Hand or paddle?

  In your fantasy, you might have a paddle across the bottom of a naughty schoolgirls, but if the first time you dick, you should go to hurry with a paddle?

  To get started, use your hand.  It may not be exactly the fantasy you imagined, but it will help you get used to dealing with punishment without taking things too far.  The best way to use your hand is to keep it flat to give the best shot.

 When both you and your partner are ready to move on, then you can remove the paddles, whips, and sticks.  Make sure you start slowly at the beginning.

  Do you like being hit or you love nothing more than making your partner get over your need to hit your sexy ass?

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