I am 37 years old and for me, when I was young, social media was not an important thing. In fact, if I think about it, it didn't really exist. Yes, I had "chat rooms" (do I still have them?), But they were practically used to go and troll other users in a way that would make you have problems nowadays.
One of the advantages of the social media revolution is that things are now being discussed that have never really been in previous years. However, this can also be problematic. One thing I hear more about is the idea that a guy can come back in one session.
One and done
Now, at the risk of over-sharing, it's never something I've tried, or even felt capable of. For me it was always one and ready, and the idea was to be able to make the woman come. After that, my cock would be over-sensitive and then fall asleep. Now all I hear from women is that "boys should be able to pick it up again in five minutes" and from boys who say they can go like a train.
I'm not going to lie, the whole thing set things right for me. Had I had "wrong" sex? Had my previous partners received a gross deal?
These were serious problems for me. I don't lack confidence at all, but I want to be a good boyfriend, because sex is a very special common experience.
So I decided to go online. Not Facebook, of course, where idiocy reigns supreme, but on the appropriate sexual sites where these things are discussed. The feedback was actually amazing.
Looks like no guy should leave again. In fact, it's more common for him to be one and do like me and Peyton Manning (one for NFL fans out there!)
After a guy comes in, he'll go through something called the "refractory period." This is a time after an orgasm, when he is physically unable to have another.
For a 21-year-old guy, that refractory period lasts on average about 1-2 hours. So this idea that you should be able to get up and walk is actually stupid.
Now, that doesn't mean there are guys who can't do that. Of course, there will be boys who can play as "Marathon Man", but he is the exception to the rule.
There are ways you can check if you are capable. Give them 15 minutes and let your partner start playing with you. You will soon be training if you can come back again. Even if you do, don't be upset if you can't come, not everyone can.
Now, if your partner starts to realize your sexual performance, it's likely that he or she has been on Facebook too much, so ignore them. Actually no. If someone is ugly about the ability of others, you have to look seriously if you want to be with them anyway.
Other methods
However, this is not a reason for a guy to roll over and go to bed if his partner needs more. However, there are things he can do to make sure she's done. These may involve manual stimulation or oral sex, all of which can lead to a partner's orgasm. Obviously, for the latter you have to be careful where you came from, for obvious reasons.
So the next time you hear from a woman that you're not a real man if you can't go again and again, or a guy tells you how he can go straight into the second round, feel free to suspect that there's a the smell of shit in the air. They both probably show up and talk from the bottom!
Those of us who can go once do it right, if, of course, our partner is satisfied in the end.
