Some people are happy to always have sex in their comfortable beds, but others can't wait to cover every corner of their house. What do you prefer? I belong to the second category and, after finishing with the tables, the desks, the kitchen and even the balcony, I decided to have sex with water. I had to go to work, so my sex with the water had to be in my own bathroom, not in the Black Sea.
I thought it would be a very erotic experience, giving me access to my partner's entire wet and soapy body, even though I was afraid of failure. Why? Well, some things sound better than they really are, and I was afraid this would be one of them. My experience with trying everything you see in movies has taught me one thing: some fantasies should remain fantasies!
However, I tried it and I liked it! Eventually, I ended up experiencing an extremely satisfying shower of two and so, in addition to repeating it, I think sharing some tips with people who have similar interests is a good idea. So, are you ready to get wet and perverted? Here's how to make sex in the shower one of the most interesting erotic experiences.
Get ready ... to get "dirty"
Spontaneity is great, but sometimes, to have a relaxing and thrilling moment simultaneously, we need a stimulating atmosphere, don't we? So I advise you to prepare your bathroom for hot, hot sex!
Should I even mention cleaning the bathroom yourself? The only thing that needs to be dirty is sex. And unless you both find it weird, shave wherever you need to shave before the perverse encounter.
On top of that, make sure you put on razors and everything you don’t need. Accidents can happen and it is better to be safe than sorry!
OK, don't throw everything away. You still need a refreshing shower gel, shampoo and maybe a soft sponge or cloth ... You also need a non-slip shower mat. Like I said, accidents should be prevented ... there's nothing sexy about a broken hip!
What else? Maybe some lighted scented candles and light music? Of course, these are not mandatory, but they certainly worked for me, so why not try them?
Another thing to keep in mind is the temperature of the shower, especially since the perfect temperature could be different for each of you. So keep it hot ... but not too hot.
Also, if you do not want one of you to freeze while the other draws water from his nose, turn on the shower before entering. I turned it on at a hot temperature before starting the foreplay (in the bedroom) and closed the door to steam the bathroom. When I walked in, the temperature was perfect and the bathroom looked like a porn movie!
It's time to have wet and ugly sex
Now, as I said, I lit the fire in the bedroom with some sensual games, and after we undressed, I took my partner by the hand and we both went into the steam bath. I suggest the same scenario. Of course, you can be in the kitchen or anywhere you like to play with each other. Just start outside the bathroom. Makes everything more interesting ...
Once you get to the shower, you better not jump on each other like animals! Take it easy, relax! Play with your partner, use soap and shampoo, massage your bodies and relax in each other's arms. You need to take advantage of the fact that you can now reach every piece of your body!
Sexy touches, hot kisses and your soapy bodies will make the experience more erotic than jumping in the shower directly into a dog position. I was there, I did it! NU SEXY! So, take it easy and enjoy!
So how about mutual pleasure with a weird oral sex shower? Get back on your knees and believe me, it's better than in bed. The view is amazing from both the up and down positions, and the pleasure is absolutely enhanced.
Let me say this: close your eyes and imagine the steamy bathroom, the dim light (I hope you remember the candles), the light music and your partner giving you oral sex while you are both hot and wet ... I told!
Don't forget to lubricate yourself!
I don't usually use it, but when I have sex in the shower, EVERYONE SHOULD LUB. You can try without, but it is not recommended because it can be a pain in ... any part you use. Why? Well, water can dry out all women's birds, making penetration difficult and, as I said, painful.
So if you want to have an emotional experience, just lubricate it! Keep the lubricant somewhere you can get without getting out of the shower. This will be even worse than not having any lubricant. At least without lubricant you can continue with oral sex ... but once you're out of the shower ... you can say goodbye to the sex of the moment. Again, I did that too and it's not even funny!
Keep calm and don't stop until you both shake!
You're ready to have sex now, aren't you? But how? There are no best positions because everyone likes different things, but there are some positions known to be comfortable in the shower. I tested them and I can confirm. I tested others (unlike getting out of the shower, these moments turned out to be quite funny), but I will keep this information for a future discussion "how not to ...".
The best position for everyone to start is face to face, with her foot around her hip. It's not hard and it's not only hot, but also romantic, giving you the chance to look into your partner's eyes while having sex.
At some point, the girl should lift her other leg and wrap them both around her waist as he pushes her against the wall. This position is very sexy anywhere, but it is absolutely amazing in the shower. It was my favorite until I tried the standing dog.
Just like when you do the dog style, it is time for the lady to face the wall, bending over while the man holds his hips with one hand and plays with her body with the other. This is my favorite position, because it seems easier to me, so it gives me the chance to relax and enjoy sex in the shower even more. But it's up to you which position improves your whole experience, so it would be good to try them all!
Unleash Your Kinkiness!
Depending on your idea of hot sex, you can bring new things to shower sex every time you do it. Once, I launched my own weirdness and brought the beatings into play. My partner loved it and it was a huge start!
Imagine this: a hot wet bottom (modesty is not one of my qualities), the sound of the palm and hot water everywhere! Yes, you have to try!
And ... how about shower handcuffs? I have some fantastic ones that support my weight (I tried to get my partner to try them on, but he prefers to see me hanging) preventing me from slipping on the wet wall. That was intensely awakened!
So, fix some handcuffs on the wall of the bathroom and it becomes perverse! A little light bondage is always welcome in every bedroom. Why don't you bring him to the bathroom, well, that's how I have sex with the showers! As I said, I was afraid that my seductive shower fantasies would be killed by reality, but it turned out to be a fun and awesome way to get closer to my partner and thank each other.
Yes, I had some epic failures along the way, but that's how I became a professional in wet and steam showers and developed this guide. We hope some of you will nail it from the beginning. So, are you ready to take that hot shower?