It is a question that divides people well and truly. Some insist that seeing an escort in Bucharest when you are already in a relationship counts as a scam, while others say that is simply not the case, and those who think they do not understand the industry.
It is believed that about 20% of married men were or are unfaithful to their wives ... does this include the escorts who visit them? Here on the Escort Bucharest blog we take a look at both sides of the argument and you can help us figure out if seeing an escort really counts as a scam. Keep reading to see what people have to say about this hot topic!
The difference between an adventure and an escort in Bucharest
It has been quite agreed that meeting a woman to start an affair when you are married is a scam. After all, you become emotionally and physically involved with someone else and then you happily return to your partner as if nothing is wrong. This usually happens when sex diminishes in a marriage and the man has asked for it so many times just to be constantly rejected ... so they go looking elsewhere.
Seeing an escort is different. For starters, there is no such thing as an emotional element. Yes, sex is still a part of it, but you don't have to worry about being "involved." There are no questions from the escort if you are leaving your wife and it is a great way to get the physical part of a relationship without emotions especially if you are already getting home!
When you have an affair, you are also worried about what will happen if the person you see wants more from you or if things get worse. He might go back to your wife and friends and reveal everything to them, leaving you in a lot of trouble. It's not the same with escorts. With escorts it is simply a commercial transaction, so it is easy to see why it is so much easier with an escort!
Even if you are not thinking about an adventure, going out for a night is still much riskier than seeing an escort. The escort insists on safe sex, which means you are much less likely to get an STI. They take care of both their health and yours. you both tend to have a little to drink, and in this state it is easy to forget condoms. It is definitely worse than seeing an escort!
Your definition of cheating
One of the biggest reasons why men choose to see escorts rather than start an adventure is that they have their own desires in the bedroom, which are simply not fulfilled. They may just not have sex or have a specific fetish that their partner does not share with them. Will a man go to see a dominatrix being treated like a cheating dog?
Many of them depend on your definition of cheating. You can easily go online and search for it, but you get a wide range of answers, and what you think you are cheating on may not be for someone else.
For example, this weekend I was talking to some friends. One of them was angry that she had caught her boyfriend winking at another girl at the bar and said she couldn't believe he was cheating on her. As far as she knew, it was just a blink and yet she thought she was having the right adventure! For me and others around me, this was not an adventure. It was simply a harmless flirtation. For some, though, that's all there is to it!
For some cheating is when you have a physical relationship with another person, such as kissing. However, many see deception as something else. They see it as an emotional connection between people and having sex with others is good, as long as you don't start a real adventure with them!
So he's cheating?
Typing "means he cheated on an escort" in Google will have "about 460,000 results" (at the time of writing), so it's clear that people want to know. If you start looking at some of the pages that have appeared, you can also see how conflicting people are. Most will shout "yes!" for you, while others argue that seeing an escort is not the same as cheating.
On one site, a user says that "it's like instead of eating at home, you felt like getting a Big Mac." He goes on to say that "there is no betrayal", as "it is more that he had a lust for something that could not serve at home". They think that if you have problems at home to get what you want, going to an escort is not misleading because you simply go to a service provider.
Although there are some who disagree with this logic, there are a lot of people who agree. After all, a Tokyo court recently ruled that paying for sex was not considered adultery when it came to the dissolution of a marriage, because it is a commercial transaction and "such conduct does not harm peaceful marital life."
What do you think about this topic? Do you see an escort cheating or is it something completely different? You can let us know what you think, if you agree that it is misleading or not, by leaving a comment in the box below. If you are curious to see what others think about this hot topic, why not go to the Escort Bucharest blog and join the discussion there!
