Do you think the amount of sex you have depends on your age? Do you expect to suddenly stop enjoying sex when you turn 40? Don't worry, no one is judging you, because there are an impressive number of people who believe that only young people have an active sex life.
You can blame the ad for filling your mind with sexy models who scream "sex" even when promoting a cake. Or you can be angry that the entire media supports youth culture by spreading frustration and anxiety at the thought of getting older.
At the same time, you can stop blaming everything and start thinking for yourself, embracing your age, life, body and sexuality.
Like it or not, life changes
While you shouldn't let TV or social media make you feel bad about getting older, you should be aware that with age comes responsibility. But if you're under 16, you probably already know that.
And more responsibility could mean less time. I have to admit that I am still young and I am struggling with time. Sometimes I don't know if I should choose sleep or sex. This may sound funny, but it is the reality.
What do I choose? Depends. Sometimes I put the things I need to do and go about my sexy business.
But between 40 and 50, you get more than a lack of time. For women, these "pre-menopausal" years bring falling estrogen and the well-known vaginal dryness. Now, you can cry yourself to sleep about it or just realize that this is the course of life and there's nothing a glass of wine and a good lube can't fix.At the same time, men begin to experience changes in their erections. Although we are not talking about erectile dysfunction, middle-aged erectile dissatisfaction can have a huge negative effect on their lives. So, like women, they can cry themselves to sleep in the other room, or just live with her and a pack of Viagra by the bed.
So, yes, aging brings annoying and even depressing changes for some people. But if you realize that it's natural, and that fear and nostalgic thoughts about your youth are only stopping you from having fun, middle-aged life and sex can be amazing.
Oh, and remember to have wine, lube and Viagra… just in case!
Since we are not forever young...
… We might as well stop wanting to be in secret. Well, not secretly, since Alphaville made it all public. But yeah, get over it and think about the things you can fix.
For example, stop worrying about how you look. Don't get me wrong, you should take care of yourself all your life, but stop complaining about the lack of firmness and the few wrinkles you have.
For everything you lack because of... life, you make up for it with experience, humor, flare, intelligence, and the many qualities you've acquired over the years.
And when it comes to sex, whether you're a man or a woman, you know your body extremely well, and that makes the bed experience that much better.
Yes, you don't look like you used to and you're drier or your penis is lazier, but guess what? Everything has a solution. What kind of solution? Well, that depends on you and your problems.
Besides always having the three things mentioned before, you can use different techniques, positions and even toys. Anything is better than sitting around unhappy complaining about the natural course of life.And if you don't believe me when I say that your sex life can be fantastic after 40, you can ask Joan Price, whose sex life at 50 was much better than my 20s.
At the same time, you can join our online escort community and get in touch with people who prefer mature escorts. Yes, there are many people who prefer wiser ladies, precisely for these reasons: experience and sophistication.
Of course, in addition to the fact that they know how to please a gentleman, they have lived in their skin for several years, had time to understand their body and feel confident and happy with it. As you can see, there is more to learn from mature escorts than sexual techniques.
And this is the most important aspect of aging. You're getting better. To anything. So how about having fun, no matter how old you are?
Great sex requires honest communication
Great sex is closely related to how well you know your body and how confident you are. But great sex also requires communication. Yes, it's different for mature people than for young people, who think that sex is just a marathon of orgasm.
I'm not judging, but this is the truth: when you're young, you're a slave to your hormones and you just want to hit.
Well, luckily, erotic pleasure can be a lot more than banging. And the more you accept yourself and the course of life, the better you will communicate with your partner and give and receive pleasure.
