With the film Fifty Shades of Gray, which has not been long since its release in cinema, items such as blindfolds and whip are becoming increasingly popular in the bedroom. Using them can be a lot of fun if you know how to do it.
The first time a partner asked me to put a blindfold in the bedroom, I was a little skeptical. The idea of being unable to see what was going on around me was a little scary, and the thought of groping blindly was kind of turned off. However, a friend recently commented that I'm not adventurous enough in the bedroom, so I decided to give it a try.
So what are the different things you can do with the blindfold?
Affirming here what is obvious, but putting a blindfold means that you have to rely on the other senses. This can be a little strange to get used to, but it can also be a huge start when you start to focus on what you hear, smell, taste and feel.
The eye covering and the food seem to go hand in hand in the bedroom. You will often see pictures showing a woman fed with a strawberry blindfold and there is a very good reason why it is so much fun.
Sharing a small number of different foods to feed your partner can be fun, especially if you don't know what's next. You can also feed each item using your own lips, giving both of you a chance for a quick kiss before moving on to the next item.
If you have flowing substances, such as honey or chocolate sauce, you can put it on your fingers for your partner to lick and suck. This will be a huge change for both of you and will turn your eating game into an erotic experience.
Touch
When it is blindfolded, you have no idea what your partner will do. He may start kissing your neck and undressing you, or he may tease you indefinitely until you ask for more.
The reason why a blindfold is so great is that you constantly hope and anticipate what your partner will do. You wait to find out her plans as you pray to bring you closer and closer to orgasm.
However, blindfolding can work in both directions. Unless your hands are tied, you can reach out to your partner and give him a slow, sensual blowjob while he is blindfolded. Because you can't see, you'll have to rely on the noises they make and touch to see if they enjoy it - which they will no doubt see.
When was the last time you used your blindfolds in the bedroom? Did you like the experience or are you determined never to repeat it? You can share your experience in the comment box below.
