It may not be as controversial as it used to be, but anal sex is still far from the norm in the bedroom. Anal sex is still considered by many to be painful, unhygienic and dangerous - and like many sexual practices, this may be the case. However, if you take into account a few key points, it is fun, sexy and feels amazing. So, if you intend to put anal in the sexual menu with your face, there are a few things to do and should not be considered, so that you both benefit from the experience.
1) Use a lot of lubricants
One of the main reasons people are put off by anal sex is because they said it can be painful. A simple solution? The lubricant. Unlike the vagina which produces its own lubrication, the anus does not. There are a lot of lubricants available on the market, and some companies produce lubricants that are specifically designed for anal penetration. They tend to be thicker, which ensures that the slip will not evaporate before the fun is over. However, any lubricant works and will create a safe and comfortable experience for both of you.
2) Use protection
So she can't get pregnant, but anal sex doesn't stop her from spreading STIs. In fact, the spread of STIs is more likely with anal penetration than vaginal penetration, because the skin around the anal area is thinner and more susceptible to small cuts. So, if you are not 100% sure that you are both monogamous and disease-free, a condom is essential.
3) Build it
We have our partners in the mood before vaginal sex and you should do the same with anal sex. Try inserting a well-lubricated fingertip or anal sex toy into your partner, allowing him to mentally prepare and relax his muscles before the main event. There are a lot of anal sex toys available on the market, but choose something narrow for starters. Remember, do not try to stretch the anal opening, simply allow it to expand slowly.
4) Let her take control
This may seem obvious, but you can't be as harsh or enthusiastic as you probably are when it comes to vaginal intercourse. Especially if she is new to the experience. Let her get used to it, walking slowly and gently to get started and allowing your partner to pass. How fast, how deep, and how hard it should be determined, and if it says, stop, stop immediately. Make sure you and your partner enjoy the anal sex experience or she may decide that anal is no longer an option.
5) Do not try anal if she is pregnant
Anal sex during pregnancy should be avoided for several reasons. The first is that a common side effect of pregnancy is hemorrhoids and you don't have to be a doctor to know that anal sex can be very painful. Second, during anal sex there is always the risk that bacteria can be transferred from the anus to the vagina - this is a risk that is definitely worth avoiding during pregnancy.
6) Do not enter elsewhere after that
Driving from the above point; it does not enter the anus and then immediately enters another part of the body, ie the mouth or vagina. It is common to take bacteria from the back door, which could lead to infections elsewhere, and this will definitely prevent your partner from trying the anal again. So make sure you wash your penis well before inserting it elsewhere.
7) Do not use stun cream
Many companies have started selling creams and gels that are designed to reduce the sensations in her anus - these may seem tempting if your partner is worried about the pain, however, we recommend that you avoid them at all costs. Not being able to feel the sensations in that area could be dangerous, because if she is not able to feel any pain, she could be seriously injured without realizing it. Instead of numbing the pain, as I mentioned above, why not prepare it with a lot of anal foreplay? There are a lot of anal toys on the market with which to tease her or simply use your tongue or finger before the main event. The most important thing is to make sure she is relaxed and comfortable before you start.
Done right, anal sex can feel amazing - but, as with anything, it takes practice. If you decide to give it a try, consider these things and what you shouldn't. For those who are still unsure, there are plenty of other online guides that cover the basics. Or why not take a step further and talk to a funny and friendly escort from Bucharest? An escort from Bucharest likes to experiment and is more than happy to answer any questions and give you advice.
The most important thing is to take time, relax and enjoy the thrill of exploring something new and interesting.
