A COMPLETE GUIDE FOR ANAL SEX

A COMPLETE GUIDE FOR ANAL SEX

More than half of men and women have tried to have or receive anal sex at least once in their lives.  However, trying and enjoying are two different things.  For a lot of people, the initial discomfort takes them away instantly.  The key to experimentation is preparation.

  Most women experience pain during their first anal episode and usually never return to experience it;  no wonder the anal gets a bad rap!  But there are steps you can take to ease your partners' fear and work to make it a pleasant and painless experience.

  Most people have an adventurous and wild side and often tend to eventually explore the darkness and mystery out of curiosity.

  Women often confuse anal sex with a sexual favor for their partner, but it is not only designed to please men, it is just as pleasurable for women, but only needs the right approach.

  This guide will give you the steps you need to make things easier and make your partner receive the most intense orgasms they have ever had in their life and give you a completely different opinion about anal sex.

  Build trust

  Before you assume that your partner will be ready for this, talk about it with her first.  If you are not careful, your partner may assume that you are unhappy with your current sex life.  Wait until you are both relaxed and the time is right before suggesting exploring her dark passage.

  The anus is a very sensitive place on the body of a man and a woman, because it is full of nerve endings and is usually very tight.  So obviously men like it!  But it is important to gain trust, because this will build another level of intimacy, which we ladies want.

  Once she has agreed to give you permission, this will give her a sense of control, even though you will be physically in the driver's seat, it is important that she has control over speed and direction.

  Preparation

 A good way to have each other at your disposal, as well as to prepare for this new sexual adventure, is to take a bath or shower.  Gently wash your other erotic's bodies, especially in the genital areas and paying special attention to her anus.  If you spend extra time caressing and washing your partner's anal region, you will stimulate them and you should make them want to feel more.

  Make sure you are fully relaxed and in the same area, mentally.  Try to avoid alcohol, you want to be able to read your partner's body language to make sure they enjoy it and not just saying they are for your benefit, right?  Nobody wants a fake!

  Holding the conversation and building trust, she should feel that with your hand so tightly caressed by her slippery anus, she will be as pleasant to her as you are.

  Researching the cavity

  A lot of people who try anal for the first time make a mistake of not greasing the tracks before entering.  This is why many people fall into the first hurdle, causing the woman pain and generally a bad experience, giving the kiss of death any second chance to come back to try again!

  To ensure easy entry, we recommend a water-based or silicone lubricant.  Due to their texture and ingredients, the use of a specially made anal lubricant will greatly help with pain and increase pleasure.  A silicone-based lubricant will last longer than a water-based lubricant;  you don't want to have the inconvenience of having to refill the oil every 5 minutes!

  Start by relaxing her by massaging your anus with your finger.  Apply the lubricant and rub it in a circular motion and see how it reacts.  Another way to really warm it up is by rolling the rim.  Use your tongue to tickle it, this will relax the sphincter muscles and give you the desired reaction.

  Once you have completely relaxed it and its bottom is nice and juicy, you could start by inserting a finger to gradually penetrate.  Test the water with every inch of your finger you enter reading your body language.  If you feel your anus tense and tight on your finger, you have more relaxation to do.

  If it responds well to a finger, continue to slide it in and out with the desired speed and movement.  Remember to ask her how she is, if she enjoys it, if she would make any changes she would like to make, and so on.  This will give her confidence that you have her pleasure as a priority.

  Slowly insert another finger, filling the lubricant when and when needed, but don't forget to tell her the next moves so she won't be surprised and you'll end up throwing the whole show before you even start!

  Rub her clitoris while testing her back passage, this will help her relax and redirect any discomfort.  You could insert a toy to help you gradually open and stretch her anus.  With lots of foreplay, relaxing it in the right places will ensure you the best results.

  Start slowly, take your time, she may not like it instantly, so it's up to you to make sure you work hard enough to make it enjoyable.  This can take as long as a session or two, depending on how you work and react.

  The last obstacle

  At this point, you should have managed to develop enough anticipation, giving him the foreplay he needed.  Make sure she is ready by asking and testing your sphincter muscles.  Relaxation is the key to this process;  an aroused mind means a relaxed anus.

  There are various positions in which you can have anal sex, the most common being on all fours, also known as "dog".  However, if this is the first time for you and / or your partner to start with the missionary position, it will be more common and may be more comfortable for an anal virgin.

  When you first get into it, don't forget to make sure it's well lubricated!  When you enter, walk slowly and check your body language and reactions.  Instead of pushing you all inside it at once, push lightly and pull inch by inch, this will familiarize you with the sensation.

  Tell her how good she feels, how much you enjoy it and talk dirty to each other, this will take the pressure away a little and wake her up more, knowing that it makes you pleasant.

  Remember, even if the first time is not as pleasant for her, it does not necessarily mean that it is the last.  As long as you don't try to build Rome one day and take the time to lay the bricks, you will definitely leave a mark on it that will leave you curious for more.

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